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Leslie A. B. Fryeshe/her


Leslie A. B. Frye

Community Mediation Center Manager

lfrye@bethelks.edu

316-284-5829


Education

Bachelor of Science in Management, Housing, and Family Development with an emphasis
in Family and Child Services and a concentration in Human Development –

Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University (Virginia Tech)

Master of Arts in Theology with a Peace Studies Emphasis – Bethany Theological Seminary

Biography

Leslie joined the staff of the Kansas Institute for Peace and Conflict Resolution (KIPCOR)
in November, 2022. As the Community Mediation Center Manager, she provides primary
leadership, overall management, and administrative oversight of all interpersonal conflict
interventions/programs offered under the KIPCOR umbrella, working in close collaboration
with service providers, local courts and area attorneys, Bethel College (including Student
Life), and the community at large.

Leslie first became convinced of the power of empathic listening when she completed
college practicums in crisis intervention. Ten years later she was awed by a mediation
demonstration given as part of a Conflict Transformation workshop offered by her church.
Subsequently, as a stay-at-home mom, she enjoyed attending mediation trainings and
leaned heavily on the skills she learned when helping to raise her two now young adult
children. Eventually she became a Kansas State Supreme Court-approved core, domestic, and
parent/adolescent mediator as well as a core mentor mediator.  She is also a Strategies for Trauma Awareness and Resilience (STAR) practitioner.

For 15 years Leslie served as the coordinator and principal mediator for the McPherson County Small Claims Mediation Project sponsored by KIPCOR’s Community Mediation Center. From 2008-2016 she directed the conflict transformation program at a faith-based non-profit social justice agency. Most recently Leslie’s work has evolved into restorative justice. She is the past director of Offender/Victim Ministries’ McPherson County Immediate Intervention Program, where she collaborated with County Attorney’s offices and local Community Corrections to provide restorative justice interventions for youth whose behavior had come to the attention of law enforcement. Practices included Neighborhood Accountability Boards, Victim/Offender and Family Conferences.

Leslie sees conflict as an inevitable, even healthy, part of living in families and communities. While discomfort and pain can often indicate the need for repair or healing,
they can also be a consequence of growth as a relationship moves from where it has been to where it needs to be. She considers conflict transformation and restorative justice work
to be embodied spiritual practices; in the midst of the mess, she strives to cultivate wise discernment and courageous action.

Born and raised on the east coast, Leslie and her spouse Jonathan have lived in
McPherson, Kansas since 1993. They enjoy traveling, making music, practicing hospitality,
sustainable gardening, and spending time with family.