Healthy Opportunities for Parenting Effectively is a unique opportunity for parents who are no longer together but still experience a high level of conflict that affects their parenting and their children.

The primary goal of the HOPE program is to reduce the negative impact of separation and conflict on children by helping parents learn healthy habits for more positive co-parenting. The program includes guest speakers such as judges, attorneys, and social workers, as well as videos, lectures, and group discussions.

The program will be offered in three sessions during 2023.  

  • Spring Session: March 6 & 20, April 3 & 17, May 1
  • Summer Session: June 5 & 19, July 10 & 31, August 21
  • Fall Session: Sept. 18, Oct. 2 & 16, Nov. 6 & 20

You must attend all five classes within one of these sessions to successfully complete the program. All classes will be offered live online, via Zoom.

You can register for a Spring, Summer, or Fall session by visiting the calendar and selecting the appropriate session.

Course Information

We use the Active Parenting curriculum Crossroads of Parenting and Divorce by Susan Blyth Boyan and Ann Marie Termini. Five classes with classroom work, video clips, guest speakers, and discussion cover the following:

  • Parenting concerns and the importance of letting your child love both parents.
  • Keeping children out of conflicts.
  • Working on your own recovery, and learning more effective communication skills.
  • Parallel-parenting and improving communication skills.


  • Kirsten L. Zerger, JD, State-Approved Domestic Mediator and KIPCOR Senior Associate
  • Joy L. Hoofer, PhD, Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Domestic Mediator
  • Pam Clark, Licensed Specialist Clinical Social Worker and State-Approved Domestic Mediator

Program Outcomes

  • Understand your child’s right/need to love both parents.
  • Focus on your child’s needs instead of their conflict.
  • Develop effective communication skills.
  • Minimize conflict.
  • Manage emotions.
  • Create healthy boundaries.
  • Rebuild trust and respect.